I so want to...but won't

I so want to post a major, major "bitch post". Apparently, I must be becoming bitchier since I am having such feelings. But I won't, because it will just cause a lot of drama.
So let me try to say it in a nice way. Please do not tell me my sons came to you in your dream, or have others convey it to me. You never even spoke to them for God's sake, in fact you made it a point to ignore them when they were alive. I hated it when they would ask me why you didn't like them. Hated it, because they did not deserve to be treated like that. They were ignored for 15 years and 12 years by you.  Now you visit them....in their fucking graves. All it took for you to acknowledge them was for them to die. Wow.
So, please, I don't want to hear about your dreams, or whatever.
Looks like my "in a nice way" communication is still a bitch post.